1. Realize the lesson you learned from loving that person and move on, or
2. Realize the person you are giving up might be you...
I'm not sure why my relationship got so bad. It was emotionally trying. After a year with my partner I had gone out and had a couple different jobs and got distracted with work. It lessened our time together and I slowly grew out of love, but I stayed with him because I made him happy.
This is three weeks after we broke up after one and a half years together. I feel like I've made a terrible mistake, will I get over him? Was it a good choice to leave someone who I thought I wasn't attracted to? I find myself alone a lot now and I am trying to get used to it, but maybe I just needed a break. I just want to text him and talk. I don't know if I should be ignoring him so we both have a chance to get over each other or we will keep talking to get to know each other again.
We were supposed to be getting engaged this Christmas so everything is out of whack.
